Tuesday, August 11, 2015

Where has the time gone...

It's been 6 months since my last blog post. Where the heck did the time go? What have I been doing for the last 6 months? Oh that's right.. a whole heck of a lot!!

Where do I begin? We went to Disney World in February.  My kids are becoming Disney experts! 

The crazy thing about February in Florida? One day you are in sweatshirts and layers and the next you are in t-shirts and shorts. But it was so much fun! The countdown is on to our next trip - a kid free Disney trip!! Shhh..don't tell the kids!

I have been trying to work on my photography in what little spare time I have. 
{I am starting to see a theme here, lol!} 

June brought on dance recital. It was H.B.Nanna's 3rd recital at this particular studio. We weren't very happy with how this dance year went but we are very excited for H.B. Nanna to start with a new studio in September! 

Our summer has been awesome! Living 2 miles from the beach will do that! We have lots of fun beach time, tons of fresh veggies during our 1st CSA share and lots of memories made. We still have 28 {!!!!!!} days till school starts and I think we are all sad for summer to be over but looking forward to what the new school year will bring. 

Wednesday, February 11, 2015

Favorite Child

Sometimes I wonder if H.B.Nanna thinks her brother is the favorite child. He requires more hands on attention because of his age and sensory issues. I don't like to use his sensory issues as an excuse but it happens.

It would only make sense if she did. I mean she hears multiple times a day "No you can't do that because of your brother." Or "Please don't hug (kiss, touch, look at} your brother right now!" "No I can't talk to you about _ right now, can't you see your brother needs me?" And my heart hurts for her. Daily.

H.B.Nanna and I had a thing when she was the only child. She was my girl that did everything with me. She was well behaved in restaurants, in stores and we really enjoyed taking her places. A lot has changed in the last 2.5 years. I feel like she takes a backseat to her brother and she {for the most part} handles it as well as any 6 year old can. I don't want her to take a backseat anymore! I want her to push me for Mommy/Daughter time. I don't know if it's because she is in school all day and our weekends are always busy but I feel very much like there is not enough time in the day/week/month for her and I to spend together.

I remember when we were considering having a second child, Stephen told me he didn't know if he had enough love in his heart to give to another child because H.B.Nanna and I had it all. Well I can tell you that he found enough love for all of us. I didn't doubt for a second that I couldn't love another child.

The Boys sensory issues regularly require us to be 1 step ahead of him. Knowing what could trigger sensory overload and how to prevent it is how my brain works these days. It means skipping out on things because he can't handle it, it means saying no to something that I know H.B.Nanna can handle and it means putting one child's needs before another. And that hurts my heart everyday.

I know that as he gets older and is able to better self regulate, things will get easier. I don't want to look back and think that we missed out on things. We've talked about scheduling regular Mommy/Daughter and Daddy/Daughter time to not only help H.B.Nanna know how much she is loved but to also help me. To help me feel like I am not failing as a Mom because I can't do for my children the way that I want to.

It does get easier, right?

Tuesday, February 10, 2015

Disney World Vacation Planning Part 1

Let me preface this blog post by saying I am not a Disney expert nor am I a vacation planner. I am just someone who has been to Disney many many times in her life and has learned a thing or two. Everything is my opinion and what works for me and my family.

My family loves Disney World! This will be the third trip for H.B.Nanna and trip number two for the Boy is just a couple of weeks away. Why so many trips at such a young age you ask?  Well for starters I think that traveling to Disney is actually quite easy with younger children. And children under 3 are free. {I know, I know..nothing in life is free!}

Some might argue otherwise but there is so much all in one place that it is just easy. Yes, folding up the stroller to take transportation to and from the hotel is a pain in the arse but really it isn't that big of a deal. You have to fold it up to put it in the trunk of the car. There are baby changing areas that are clean and make it easier than being somewhere like a dirty public restroom. There are strollers everywhere and though a cast member may move it to a different spot in the stroller staging area, it'll still be there waiting for you.

I think the first time we traveled to Disney with H.B.Nanna we were more nervous about it. She was almost three {so not a baby by any means} but there were still uncertainties.  She was potty trained but would she have lots of accidents? Would we ruin our vacation if she didn't nap? Would there be enough for her to eat? No we didn't have any potty accidents {we just asked her a lot more than normal if she had to go}. We went back for her and I {I was in my first trimester with the Boy}to nap most days but the days we didn't she snoozed in her stroller while we rested on a bench. She didn't starve. In fact, none of us did.

We have stayed at both value and moderate resorts. I like them both for different reasons. The value is well a value and when you are paying a good amount of money for a vacation that you intend on spending all your time in the parks, then in my opinion the value is the way to go. If it's just a place to sleep then that is the way to go. The pools are great and the food court {at the Pop Century} is wonderful but there will be larger tourist groups making the resort just a weeeeee bit noisy. The moderate resorts are really nice. You pay more to get more. Your rooms are nicer, the pools are better and your food choices are obviously better too. If you are planning on a down day or two to just chill poolside then moderate is a great choice.

I have been to Disney World in the Spring, in the Fall and in the Winter. Never the summer for a number of reasons but mainly because it is to darn crowded. I know that for some it is the only time of year they can go but I was always fortunate enough to be excused from school to go during the school year, which is what we are doing for H.B.Nanna.  I have seen it decorated for Christmas twice and it is so incredible. Osbourne Family of lights in Hollywood Studios {does anyone else still want to call it MGM??} is fabulous. I have been there in September before it is decorated for Halloween. I have been there in the April when flowers are in bloom everywhere. Is there a best time to go?  I think it is up to each individuals preference. I like different times for different reasons which may be different from everyone else. There are crowd calendars and planning tools that will help you to figure out when is the right time for you to go. It is also important to take into account special offers that the Disney has for different times of year.

We have done both park hopper and basic tickets. Park hopper is exactly that, a park hopper. You can spend the morning at the Animal Kingdom and the afternoon at Epcot. Or you can really exhaust yourself and try for three parks in one day. The basic ticket means that whatever park you enter in the that day is your park for the day. You can leave and come back but you can not leave to go to another park.  The park hopper was great when we didn't have kids with us. We could spend the day at the Magic Kingdom then go to Epcot for dinner and fireworks. But it was also good when we had just H.B.Nanna with us because when we went back to the hotel for a nap, we could then send the late afternoon/evening in a different park.  This coming trip we opted not to get the park hopper. We know which parks we'll be at on which day {thanks fast pass+} and neither of our kids will be up late enough for fireworks for us to worry about switching parks.

Dining Plan no Dining Plan, that is the question.  This can be a touchy subject because some argue it isn't worth the money and they don't like it because if one person in your party has it, everyone has to have it. I understand where they are coming from.  Here is my take on it. No I have never sat and calculated every receipt to see if we lose money or not. I do know that character meals can be expensive. They are either buffet or sit down depending on the restaurant. Cinderella's castle requires you to use two credits for one meal. I like the character meals because they come to my table and I don't need to wait an hour in line for them to sign an autograph book. I like the dining plan because it is stress free for us.  I know my meals are paid for before I get there.  If you have any plans of eating in a restaurant other than a quickserve, you need a reservation. Some get lucky just walking up but walking up and then having to wait an hour with a hangry child is not my idea of fun. My kids like to eat and aren't that picky {with the exception of their food allergies} so while they may not eat enough food to cover their cost of the dining plan, they do put a good hurting on it making it worth it to me. Here is some good information on the Disney Dining Plan.

I am OCD about a lot of things. That is no secret. That's why I book directly through Disney World and do all of the planning myself. I enjoy it! I research a lot and take notes. No I don't carry a clip board on our trip {my Mom did once if I remember correctly!} but I do keep the sheet of notes in my book bag that I can reference if need be. And I learn new things every trip. And we run out of time and don't get to do things every trip but there is always next time. Anyhoo....we compared pricing through AAA and Disney directly once and Disney had more to offer {the specific hotel and room type we wanted} at the price we were looking for. Growing up my parents used a travel agent when planning our Disney trips.

We order some groceries and have them waiting for us at the hotel. But why do you need them if you have the dining plan?  It is more cost effective for me to give the kids yogurt or fruit in the hotel room on the mornings we don't have breakfast reservations then to go to the food court and pay out of pocket. I use Garden Grocer to have milk {coconut and almond}, yogurt, fruit, granola bars, pretzels and wine {for Mommy and Daddy} waiting for us. This covers some mornings and some snacks through out the day if the kids want them. Whatever is left that is transportable is used for airplane snacks and comes home with us. I have ordered diapers and wipes before all at prices that are comparable to what I spend at home. There is a delivery fee but it is still easier then worrying that your luggage is too heavy or paying to ship a box to the hotel in hopes that it will be there in time. Garden Grocer offers discounts for ordering early.

I'll write another post about what I have learned to pack, my favorite places to see characters and anything else I can think of. I hope that this has been helpful to at least one person. If you are still there!!

Monday, February 9, 2015

Routines and Slower Beach Living

Here is the thing about my house, routines are essential. My children need routine. My OCD needs routine. My husband...he doesn't but he goes along with it.

When we moved almost 4.5 years ago my husband adopted the slower, beach living way of life very quickly. Having grown up in a very busy area where everyone is always on the go I have had a harder time adopting this new lifestyle. It's not that I don't want to, I am gradually. Baby steps. I do enjoy that there isn't necessarily that sense of urgency for some things. But my planner brain can't always accept that.

To me it is important to have structure and routines in the home. Kids thrive on it. I thrive on it. I like knowing what is {usually} happening for the week with the understanding that things come up and things happen to throw the schedule off. Since the Boy has 4 therapies a week, my planner is my best friend!

H.B. Nanna knows the deal. You get up, you potty, you get dressed and make your bed all before breakfast. Most days we have less than an hour to do all of that, eat breakfast, brush her teeth and get to the bus stop. Some morning there are more stern warnings to hurry up or you are going to miss the bus. Does it help? Not always. She knows if she misses it we have to drive her and that buys her an extra 25 minutes.

The Boy doesn't necessarily have a morning routine other than wandering into our room at some ungodly hour and asking for milk. It's a good thing he is cute!! But he does know what days he has what therapy and what days he has school. No matter what day it is, he'll tell you it's Tuesday.

H.B Nanna has to do her homework as soon as she is home from school. It's the only way it gets done. Little Brother wants to help most days which makes the process so much longer and more complicated than it is intended to be. We are working on keeping him busy so she can work from the desk in her room.

Every other week is Girl Scouts. And every week there is dance class. It's just enough for now. I know it will get busier as the Boy gets older but I do have another year or two before we start sports for him. I am trying to enjoy this calm while I can.

And you are probably wondering how this is any different from your busy routine. It isn't really. The thing that I do find tough is that people who have adopted this slower beach living way of life, do not like to plan things in advance. And some might even argue that they are this way and they don't live at the beach. Point taken.

Do you want to come for dinner on Saturday? I don't know, ask me Friday. 
Birthday party invitations are sent out a week to a week and a half before the party. 
Could you send in homemade cookies for the class tomorrow?

But the one absolute best routine in our slower beach living life is beach naps. If you want to stay at the beach all afternoon, you need to take a snooze. And it works I tell you. H.B.Nanna only has to snooze one day a weekend. At 6 you ask? You see what 2 full days of beach does to this princess and you'll understand why!!

Tuesday, January 20, 2015

Gluten Free Doesn't Suck!

When we found out that Hanna B. Nanna was gluten intolerant I didn't really understand what that meant.  I knew the Celiac bloodtest was negative {come to find out that an endoscopy is where you get the real answers} and that after she ate chocolate chip pancakes, she cried because her belly hurt. At 4 years old, chocolate chip pancakes shouldn't make your belly hurt. Our pediatrician sent us home with the instructions to remove all gluten from her diet. Sure.

I quickly became educated on gluten free cooking.  We were making her separate meals which quickly became super annoying. She quickly learned that birthday parties at school were no fun anymore. I felt so sad for her. About 6 months later, I decided that if she had to eat gluten free that I was going to as well. And so when the chef is eating gluten free, so is everyone else. And do you know what? It isn't bad at all. We have survived. We aren't starving. Our food doesn't taste like cardboard. I keep telling people that they eat more gluten free foods then they realize.

I have made some crowd pleasing meals that I thought I would share with you. Make sure you follow me on Instagram and Pinterest so you can check out some others.

Monday, January 19, 2015

Happy Middle of January!

I was going to wish you all a happy new year but since that was almost 3 weeks ago I feel like we are all beyond that.  The holidays went fast!  There was family, friends, lots of memories made and just a weeee bit of Mommy and Daddy juice consumed over that week. It really was a good time in our new house. {I guess I probably never mentioned moving. I'll do that. Someday.}

So here are a few of our favorite moments captured on photo.

Train Tables are excellent gifts!

A beautiful sight!


This boy loves firetrucks!

So handsome!

Happy New Year!!